I get this question from time to time if my kids wear diapers or if I keep them in them or even commented that my kids must be wearing the same baby diapers as me. Sorry to disappoint you but both mine are out of them.
Why do we potty train our kids as ABDLs, maybe for these following reasons:
We want diapers to be sexual again
We don’t want our kids to be bullied and picked on in school if we can help it because kids are cruel
We don’t want CPS to come take our kids away for child neglect
We want more spending money than using it on diapers for our kids
We get tired of changing them like most parents
Because you are supposed to potty train them, humans are like sheep and never question why things are like this or that way or why the rule even is there. We tend to follow rules blindly without even questioning it. Now I was one of those kids to question everything and if you didn’t give me the reason why, I would test you because “Because I said so wasn’t the answer” and my only reason to follow rules was fear and to stay out of trouble, not because I understood
We want our partners involved again
And maybe, just maybe because they are ready and we are not going to force our lifestyle onto them and shove it in their faces like people do with religion or with their political beliefs and other beliefs
