Rescheduled

Published May 22, 2015 by lifeasadiaperedmother

My husband was able to get another appointment scheduled for his sleep apnea. It will be on the 2nd but that is when my son has school and I have to be there when it ends because I have an appointment with his teachers about his progress. He has been doing very well and no more behavior issues. He still gets his moments. What kid doesn’t?

My husband’s appointment is five minutes before my son’s school starts so he got overbooked. He can’t drive so I always have to take him and I will try and see if my mom or dad can watch my son and take him to school but my husband said I could take him and drop him off and he can just wait for his appointment there. That would mean the kids would have to come with and get up early unless my parents watch them until I get back.

It’s been marked on the calender so hopefully we won’t forget this one. I will still be bringing ear plugs along just in case.

Deliberate obtuse people or serious comprehension issues

Published May 22, 2015 by lifeasadiaperedmother

Sometimes I will run into an “idiot” online who will take what I say out of context and exaggerate what I say or twist it or make up what I say. I used to get suckered into their arguments and I would be getting frustrated trying to get through to them what I am saying and they keep on twisting it more and more and I am arguing with them about things I never even said. I used to think they were idiots and here I was wasting my time arguing with them and fighting and I am getting myself all riled up. These are what I call trolls.

Then I decided I had enough and I now ignore them by not feeding them anymore. It’s fine to disagree what I wrote and then say your argument telling me why but don’t make stuff up what I wrote or otherwise we are done talking. That is a quickest way to kill the discussion and end it.

Sometimes people will read this blog and make stuff up what they read and I have already gotten hate comments about it, only here once from one person and from someone on Reddit.

I used to waste my time arguing with a former online friend on a AB/DL forum and he would always twist what I say or not read what I wrote and then finally I decided he was just trolling me and I stopped feeding him because I realized he couldn’t really be this stupid. We couldn’t get along and it was like no matter what I said to him, he would always turn it around and it would turn into an argument and one forum admin said to the both of us we both act like we were formally married and he said thank god he wasn’t or he would have put a pistol to his head.

A couple people have done this BS to me on ADISC and I recently ran into this again on Wrongplanet and the person still continues to play dumb.

If these people aren’t trolling, then they have a serious reading comprehension issue. I will get snarky sometimes and tell them they can’t read or go back to school and learn to understand English better.

If English isn’t their primary language I give them the benefit of the doubt. Actually that is what I did with someone online but he turned out to be very manipulative and he was someone from Holland. His original language was Dutch so whenever he would accuse me of me saying things, I always assumed it was a misunderstanding and he had mistranslated my words. I realized afterwards when I had blocked him that he was manipulative because I read through our texts and saw I never said things he claimed I said and it was all games he was playing and he was just messing with my head and I think him throwing a tantrum because I wouldn’t be his mommy was his manipulative tactic to feel sorry and be his mommy so it backfired because I had blocked him. He said he didn’t want to talk and he was taking me off his list but here he was still talking to me and he just wanted to fight and argue so I blocked him and blocked him on Facebook. He would leave creepy comments on my wall anyway and mention AB/D: related things by saying “his mommy came back” and I would delete it. He had said before he was taking me off his friends list and he would still be on my Facebook and then he would IM me again and I would ask him “I thought you were taking me off your friends?” and he would tell me “You’re my friend and a good person, I don;t stay mad at you long.” I wonder if that was another tactic he was doing so that would explain why he would come back. Then he got nasty one day so I blocked him. My therapist did telling me in high school people will try and manipulate you in a positive way and when they don’t get what they want, then they do it the negative way. But yeah I was naive and fell for it until after it had happened and I had already blocked him. And this guy here was my friend and we had known each other since I was 18 so sometimes you don’t know someone so it’s easy for them to manipulate you because you trust them. After all your own friend would never manipulate you and play games. No wonder this man has lost his mommy a couple times already and he wouldn’t know they would block him, he would just think they stopped coming online and I have blocked him and he probably doesn’t know I have also blocked him so I don’t think he will try and find me by making another Facebook account or creating a new yahoo ID and I never take any new add requests when someone adds my name unless they say who they are like what forum they are from or what website they saw me on so that way I know they are not some bot. But you can still IM someone on Yahoo Messenger without being on their friends list.

Back on topic, I do think you can be a regular member on a forum and still be a troll. It can be sometimes or to certain people and sometimes you can make a trollish post but still make other regular posts. Some people just like to argue and not shut up until you stop talking to them so they will twist your words and exaggerate what you say and they can deny their actions and pretend they don’t know what you are talking about when you call them out on it and pretend they don’t really know what you are saying. Pay no attention to these people folks. If they are genuine, then they have a serious reading issue and there is still no point trying to get through to these people. Save your sanity and move on and drop it.

Note: People who have strong feelings about a topic or suffer trauma may also do this too but that wouldn’t mean they are trolling. I still wouldn’t waste my time with them though.

Retarder

Published May 21, 2015 by lifeasadiaperedmother

This was a new term I just learned from an online friend who I talk to from Sweden. I like to write so we have been chatting about my stories for two years, sometimes we talk about other things but it’s mostly about my story. I always get ideas in my head about them and lately I notice I have been drifting into fantasies than reality about my character. Just lately I got an idea in my head that her mom in law and her sister in law decide to start changing her diapers because she tends to not change them after she messes them. So they decide if she won’t do it, they will and she finds it so humiliating they want to do it for her and they won’t take no for an answer. Her husband is fine with that. She also has an adult sized crib too and that helps with her anxiety because he said she seems calmer now. Now I get an idea in my head about her mom in law finds an adult sized stroller at a charity shop so she buys it and shows it to Natalie when she comes to visit. Natalie doesn’t like it and protests and Pam tells her to stay with them then. I imagined a scene like this:

“Natalie, I was at a charity store and I found something, I want to show you,” said Pam.
I followed her to her garage and she showed me the item. It was some chair and Pam opened it and I realized it was an adult sized push chair. “What is that?” I asked.
“It’s a push chair. I got it for you.”
“What?” I asked. “Are you kidding?”
“No I am serious, this will be something we could use when we all go out and so we won’t lose you. We get separated too often and we always have to go looking for you.”
“I am not using that, that will make me look like a retard.”
“Okay, just stop getting separated from us or how about you start bringing your phone so we can call you whenever we get separated because we all get tired of having to look for you because you never tell us where you are going and you get too distracted.”
“Okay,” I said.
“Sounds good,” said Pam. “I will just hang onto this just in case.”
Pam closed the push chair again and set it against the wall. I couldn’t believe she got it for me and it felt so humiliating. There was no way I was going to ride in that thing in public. First everyone starts changing my nappy and now she wanted me to be in a push chair?

I asked my friend what he thought of it and if he thinks this is over the top or reverse psychology. He asked me if I had ever heard of feeders. They try to make their partner gain weight. He sort of got that feeling that Steven’s family when he read it. Are they retarders that make people become their adult babies.

Okay this was not my intent, retarder, that sounds funny. That word. “I am going to retard you.” “We’re going to retard you” to mean we will make you mentally regress, I am going to make you regress so you will be a helpless toddler. It made me imagine if someone wrote that in their story in one of their ebooks.

As you probably just noticed, I am not PC in my stories. I did put in my Natalie story from when she is 15. I had a teacher say after Natalie’s choir concert ““and we all wish a Happy Holiday” and my friend thought that was silly because everyone knows it’s Christmas they celebrate and other people from different religions must be able to accept that the western civilization is built on Christianity. But I didn’t do this for political correctness, I did this because some people do greet people with “Happy Holiday” and I think it’s a lazy way of wishing everyone a Happy Kwanzaa, a happy Hanukkah, a Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year. Better to say Happy Holiday than saying all these holiday names. I like to stick with reality than making it all rainbows and unicorns where the whole world is perfect and there is no such thing as a violent person or an abuser or a an alcoholic or a drug user or dishonest people, bullies, etc. so it’s unPC to be PC to some people so there was another part of the unPC in my story.

AB/DL meme

Published May 20, 2015 by lifeasadiaperedmother

I am not sure if I have done this but I know I have on a forum so here I go.

Have you ever done any of these things as an AB/DL?

Wear a diaper – Yes

Wear a diaper to work – Yes

Wear just a diaper outside – Yes, at a nude beach

Wear just a diaper in front of someone – Yes

Wear a diaper in front of a family member – Yes

Told a family member you wear diapers – Yes

Told your spouse or S/O that you wear diapers – yes, my ex

Told a close friend ¬you wear/like diapers -No.

Have your diaper changed by someone of opposite sex – Yes

Have your diaper changed by someone of the same sex – No

Shaved your pubic area – Yes

Shaved someone else’s pubic area – No

Have infant print diapers/plastic pants – Yes

Gone to a party wearing diapers – Yes

Gone to a party wearing just a diaper or baby clothes – No

Wear disposables – Yes

Wear a cloth diaper – My daddy made me quit wearing them

Own a pair or pairs of plastic pants – Yes

Own and wear infant/toddler clothes (ie. onesies, rompers, shortalls) ¬-AB clothes? Yes.

Own a pacifier – Yes

Own a baby bottle – Yes

Met with other diaper lovers for an afternoon/evening – Yes

Spent a weekend/overnight with other diaper lovers – Yes once

Had a diaper leak in a public setting, that was noticeable – Yes

Messed in your diapers – Yes

Messed your diapers in public – Yes

Had a picture taken taken of you in just diapers – Do selfies count?

Had a picture taken outside in just your diapers – No

Desire to stay in diapers forever – Yes

Last question! What is your mental age while wearing diapers? My chronicle age. My RP age is 3.

So which is it?

Published May 19, 2015 by lifeasadiaperedmother

You have probably heard of Tonya Harding, the figure skater who hired someone to attack another skater so she would win in the US Figure Skating Championship. Bob Rivers even has a song about it that is a parody of “Brand new key” and it’s called “Break Your Knees” and he has it on his website. (I just looked and I don’t see it so maybe he took it off or I don’t remember the exact name title). There was another incident I heard that happened in Wales. The incident made me think of Tonya Harding and her being a figure skater and the time she attacked another skater. Not literally but she had someone else do it for her so Nancy wouldn’t be able to skate and her plan failed. 20 yeah old Jemma Fitzgerald was attacked with an ice skate by another 27 year old woman Natasha Welsh who had Asprerger’s syndrome because she was smoking. She had a strong dislike in smoking because of her stepfather and former partner so she hit her with a bag and meant to hit her in the shoulder but got her in the head instead and she fell and there was blood and she saw it and kept on walking. The attack was witnessed by a bunch of teenage boys and one alerted his father and he chased after the woman and tried to make citizens arrest (what does that mean?) and she screamed and ran into a shop. The father told staff to call police and waited outside. The police came and arrested her.

I first heard this story on Facebook a couple nights ago and people on the autism spectrum were not happy about it because Natasha got to walk free from court because she had AS. There is even a petition on change.org called Retrial Natasha Welsh. Jemma suffered a fractured skull and needed twenty stitches and she had to have brain surgery and have elements of it removed. I was not happy about it either and I looked the story up online to see if I can get more facts and not one other news sites cover it.

Now here is the ironic thing, an aspie attacks another person and causes her a head injury and left her with possibly permanent disabilities that will be caused by the head injury and a bunch of aspies get pissed about it because autism does not cause someone to be violent but yet when a Tigard family got kicked off the plane because the mom told the flight crew that her daughter will maybe try and scratch and then maybe they will help her, they went ballistic about it and called it discrimination. Wait a minute, I thought autism didn’t cause someone to be violent and the mother just told the crew that her daughter tends to scratch others and told them it can happen if she doesn’t get her preferred food. Why would this be acceptable? Don’t get me started on Issy Stapleton, she gave her mother black eyes, gave her three head injuries, kicked her into being unconscious, pushed her down the stairs, tried to run her off the road by grabbing the steering wheel, would go after her little sister to hit her and Ainsley had to lock her self in her room or in their car to get away from her, and read another story where she planned to go to McDonalds with a bunch of her friends but then found out she wouldn’t be able to go so she starts ripping the whole house apart because Kelli was not around or her little sister so she targeted the house instead and wait a minute, autism does not cause someone to be violent and there were a bunch of people on the spectrum defending this teen and glossing over all the abuse and I would say that is the worst I have ever heard because it was so graphic and horrifying to see. Oh the double standard. Now I see they are pissed about an aspie attacking someone with an ice skate and walking free from court. I said sarcastically in the group on Facebook “Maybe she was having a meltdown.” I have noticed that it seems to be acceptable to be violent if it’s a meltdown and then i see other arguments that meltdowns does not mean violence but yet I will see other people on the spectrum and parents of autistic kids calling it a meltdown when they are aggressive or their child. Wait a minute, what?

People just cannot seem to agree.

Published May 19, 2015 by lifeasadiaperedmother

After I got out of my shower, I was pulling hair from my pussy when my husband came upstairs with our daughter. She was still awake and my husband told me to come with him. I followed him and he put our daughter in the crib and told me to lay on the bed. he put my clean diaper on me and I said “No sex” and he said he wasn’t going to have it and I said I didn’t want it in here because that would be creepy. Can you imagine having sex in your kids bedroom? Then my husband put my socks on my feet and my pajamas and handed me my doll (our daughter) and told me he was putting me to bed and I looked tired and I would get a butt spanking if I get out of bed. Then he headed downstairs to the basement where he plays his game and sleeps. I nursed my baby and she wouldn’t settle and she kept squirming around and taking herself off my boob and I finally stuck her in her crib and went to my room to brush my hair when I heard Daddy calling. I asked “what?” and he told me to come here and told me our daughter was wide awake and I could stay up. Yay. I am so glad he changed his mind. I wanted to do the computer and didn’t get the chance to. Now she is sleeping because she wouldn’t settle in my room, she would fuss and squirm when I held her and would cry if I put her down, so I stuck her in her crib and she went right to sleep. She cried for a few minutes though.

Cancelled greatfunsite

Published May 18, 2015 by lifeasadiaperedmother

As some of you probably heard about those programs online people join to gt discounts and coupons for dining out and shopping and entertainment, last month I bought plane tickets to fly out to Wisconsin for my Aunt’s wedding reception. They got married in Las Vegas and will be having the reception in Milwaukee. The tickets ended up being rounding $1700 because they were rounding $500 a piece and it wasn’t easy getting them and it’s me and my husband and our kids plus travelers insurance because delays happen and if we get delayed, we miss the wedding. I would leave sooner but my work only gives me one week off a year and I haven’t checked yet how many weeks of vacation I get a year. I would stay a day or two longer but getting those tickets wasn’t easy and it gave me a lot of anxiety my mom had to help and planning a vacation is a lot of work and stressful which is why I never take one and go anywhere because all this planning is too much for me and all these steps to take is overwhelming. So we got plane tickets and we got the confirmation in my mom’s email and it had a number at the bottom for a $50 rebate and you had to call the number. I was not interested but my mom insisted I call. I figured the fifty bucks would go towards our trip so I called the number and instead it had strings attached. I had to join the Great fun Site and then cancel to get it. I was not interested and the lady didn’t take no for an answer and I ended up signing up. I should have been rude and just hung up. I need to work on my rudeness. 3 weeks go by and the package comes and I look at it and hold off cancelling because I had a whole month to do it. Then finally last week I call to cancel and I go through the bullshit again, he won’t let me cancel and tells me about the website and to look on it instead and the book they gave me was just a small portion of what they had and they had more online and just put in my location and it will show me all these discounts. I had until the 25th to cancel. This day comes and I call again to cancel and I decide to be honest this time. This time it was a woman that answered and I told her about the rebate thing and I go through the same bullshit again, I had until the 25th for a 30 day trial and to enjoy the program and use the discounts. I told her I was not interested and I just wanted to cancel before that day comes so I won’t be charged and I told her I tried cancelling last time and went through this last time and the next time I call to cancel on that day, will I have to go through this again and finally she cancelled my membership and gave me a cancellation confirmation number. I don’t care about the rebate anymore and I am just glad I got this over with, it wasn’t easy and the phone call made me nervous because I always hate dealing with this bullshit. What do I say, how do I respond and and answer, how will the other person act. I wish it was just all easy and I will make sure to not get any rebates by calling numbers because they might make me sign up for this crap and I have to either not call to get rebates or work on being rude because they don’t take no for an answer. It’s just easier to avoid it. I am thinking those rebate things might just be a scam as an attempt to get people to join them and then they stay with them because they liked the program and that is how they make their money because it’s only one dollar for the first month. Just think, 2,000 people sign up and it’s one dollar for a 30 day trial and they all cancel, that is $2,000 they made. They want everyone to stay until the end and then they charge you the first month and that is $16 they made. Yeah I don’t want to lose that much and I am cheap as my husband calls me and my parents. My mom in law calls me thrifty. I think next time I will just hang up if I find out I have to join a program to get a rebate. Work on being rude.

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