A thread saddened me

On Reddit, someone posted about being 24/7 and even though he didn’t mention his kids in his OP, the other poster did and the OP said his was still a baby. But I see he has 16 upvotes already and the part in his reply where he admitted he is not that secretive about his diapers much either. That post got five upvotes. When I posted my very first thread there, I got down voted and my responses were down voted and yet they are fine with him wearing 24/7 as a parent but not with me. I felt sad because I was feeling again I was being singled out and treated different. Plus things got made up in that thread where I got accused of changing my poopy diaper in front of my son when I never wrote that and I wonder if others read that comment and believed it without bothering to read this blog first before believing anything they hear. Plus I was accused of trolling and the OP talked about wearing diapers 24/7 while I mentioned I have kids and lid with my parents and with my husband. The OP only mentioned his wife. Just the reason why the rating system sucks, people then feel bad and wonder what they are doing wrong and I know it’s used as a popularity thing and people feel disliked and the voting system can also be abused where you can just down vote anything to hide the comment. But on the bright side the OP had 87% upvotes so someone didn’t agree with his lifestyle either.  And also those negative people I encountered might all be gone and these are just whole new people upvoting.

Now the voting is at 95% upvotes. I also had good upvotes and then they went down to 42% and I had 0 points while the OP has 17.

Here is the thread I am talking about:



Question from my son

“Do Grown ups wear diapers?”

Me: Some of them do

My son noticed them sticking out of my clothes so he tugged at it and asked that question and I pulled him away. He made another comment and I ignored it and then he seemed to have forgotten about it because he move on. I am the only grown up he knows who wears. He caught my husband once in them and boy was he mad at him for barging in his room without knocking. But hopefully he didn’t notice or he has forgotten about it I hope.

Changed in the living room

My X plus diaper was very soaked and it smelled like urine and I could feel it was leaking so I told my husband I needed a diaper change. He told me to come downstairs but I didn’t want to leave our daughter alone in her highchair so I decided to just wait when she is finished eating. But my husband came up with a diaper instead and changed me on the living room rug. He said it turned me on and I joked about having a Natalie fetish (the character from my stories) because she has gotten changed in the family room of her house so I imagined being her and my husband told me it’s because it’s my fantasy. My parents were not home or our son. But then I had to take care of my own diaper.

The way men think

I hear men are disorganized and women are organized, girls talk more than boys, men are oblivious, women are more detail orientated, men are forgetful and tend to misplace things (my husband wanted a BB gun and he had to be talked out of it), women are more into fashion which is why they own so many pairs of shoes and clothes than guys do, men don’t read between the lines easily, men see cleanness and messes differently than women do.

I remember back when I first had a profile on Diaper Mates in 2006, I had a long detailed profile because it had sections that had you fill out so I had out what I wanted in someone, things about me and my hobbies, my AB side, my appearance. I had myself listed as an AB and DL and I had said in my profile I wanted a daddy and I had a list of baby items I owned. I also had down my location.

I got a bunch of messages from guys and some of them would ask me if I use my bottles and pacifiers. I would answer yes to their silly question because I was being polite. I never understood why they were asking me this because that is like me asking someone if they wear their underwear or if they use their refrigerator or their stove or their vacuum. Then I met Jerry and he also didn’t know I used them because I didn’t say in my profile I did. Why would I? I had myself listed as an AB and said I was looking for a daddy. Wouldn’t anyone in the AB/DL community know how AB/DL works? But men think differently than women, for me it was obvious but for a guy it was not. They need things more explicit than women. But I eventually added to my profile “yes I use them” because sometimes things are not clear enough for guys. But that question being asked did stop after I stuck it in there. Even my husband would have been oblivious too because he told me when I told him about it and his excuse also was I could just be a mommy. I told him “why would I have AB in my profile and say I am looking for a daddy?” and he said I could have wanted both so I said “Wouldn’t I have also listed I wanted to be a mommy?”

Men, can’t live with them, can’t live without them.

My mom was in the bathroom

I had to strip down to my diaper again in front of my mother. It is still uncomfortable but she has no problem seeing me in them. Last night I was going to take a shower but Mom was in the bathroom and she saw me and I said I was going to shower and she said “Go ahead, you can come in.” I come in and I take off my top and my socks and I just stand there but I realize my mom would be on the toilet for a while because she is taking a dump. I know my mom doesn’t like me trying to hide from her because she has told me before it’s okay and she knows I wear them so I don’t need to be embarrassed. So I finally take off my jeans and take off my wet diaper and roll it up and put it in the diaper pail. My mom didn’t say a word about it. I talked about this to her and she told me he is too young to be there and he likes to move around and talk when he watches shows. Nothing was said about my diapers, only the concert which I brought up because of the passive-aggressive note.

But luckily I didn’t have to put a diaper on in front of her and she has never said anything when I refuse to put one on in front of her. I just go in my kids bedroom and put it on if she or Dad are in the bathroom and my son is in my bedroom.

My daddy was caught by our son

Diaper changes can be so hard with kids. I pooped and went in the basement later to get changed and my husband was back in bed again. He said he was just laying there because he had a headache. So I lay with him and he said he couldn’t change me because he wasn’t feeling good so I decided I would just wait. I am too lazy to change a messy diaper so I would hold off. Then when I was talking about our diapers and us peeing in them and pooping, my husband says he is starting to get turned on. I knew what this meant so I decided to manipulate his penis by provoking it. I keep talking about diapers to turn him on so he would have sex. Sex means a diaper change so he would have to clean me up before sex. Just when I was getting close to a diaper change, my son comes down.

My husband tried to get him to leave by telling him we were napping and he would have to nap with us if he wanted to be down here so he leaves. Then he comes back a few minutes later with my Bob the Builder doll and he uses it as a pillow to lay on and he wanted to lay with us. My husband keeps trying to get him to leave by telling him he would have to lay still, make no sound and then he said in my ear “Sorry I tried.”

Then later I just take him back upstairs, give him some cereal and turn the TV on to Nick Jr. and he is preoccupied so I go back to the basement. We get to do my diaper change after I had to turn my daddy on again by talking about diapers and masturbating in mine laying next to him. He tells me to get a diaper little girl so I grab one from his drawer. Then he takes of my sleeper and he undoes my diaper and cleans me up using three wipes. He said it was a big one and it was all over and even in my pussy. Then we were having sex and we both hear our son come and my daddy pulls out of me and heads for the door but it opens and my son sees him in his diaper and my daddy scolds him to get out and closes it. He then diapers me and said our play time was over. I said I liked diaper changes more than sex so I am not upset. He puts his pants back on as I put my pajamas on again. Then I took up the bag of diapers because my diaper smelled and the bag was full and I didn’t want the whole room to stink so I took them out to the outside trash. It already has two other bags of used diapers which belong to me and daddy and out daughter so it’s going to be more trash bags of used diapers. Our trash pick up is next week so good thing we got a big huge trash can.

Our son hadn’t said anything about his dad wearing them so I am not going to say anything about it. Maybe he didn’t notice. But he was mad when he walked right in on us. Maybe we should buy a lock for the door or start putting things in front of it to make it harder for him to come in. We could place the playpen there and coffee table and the IKEA coffee table. I think I will go the cheap way.